Couples Therapy
For couples who keep getting stuck in the same painful patterns over and over again
Does This Sound Familiar?
One minute you love your partner and wanna jump their bones. The next minute you are arguing and telling them you want to break up because they didn’t listen to you (for the 37th time). “When we are good, we are really good…but when we are bad we are really bad….”, this is something I hear from couples often. Relationships are messy but I want to help you leave the telenovelas for entertainment, and keep them out of your relationships. Being relational is one of the hardest tasks about living. It requires an immense amount of work, skill, and patience. Trauma Drama, Communication Chaos, Attachment Injuries and wounds, Cultural Clashes, Sexual Struggles, Non-Monogamy Mayhem, and Conscious Uncoupling. I want to help you tend to these issues and dynamics that present themselves in your relationships. I like working with all types of couples- queer couples, Interracial couples, BIPOC couples, Hetero couples, any couples. If you want the support in learning to be more relational, hit a sista up and let’s begin the work.
Couples Therapy Focus Areas
Communication breakdown & recurring conflict
Codependency
Discernment counseling & separation conversations
Power imbalances & relational roles
Desire discrepancies, sexual issues and disconnection
Ethical non-monogamy & relationship structure changes
Trauma impact on relationships
Interracial, cultural, & identity-based dynamics